Posted by: livingdd | June 13, 2009

Sleeping on my tummy (~N)

Thanks for tuning in for the punishment update.  In our last episode, we left our heroine waiting for a spanking for not meeting her water goal.  Unfortunately, that spanking came after two other severe spankings!

Okay, the back story to that is, on Thursday I had already had a maintenance spanking, and a just because he can spanking.  He said, my butt was safe from spanking for the rest of the morning, so I said “promise” and he said “yeah” so I said “great, then I can show you my nutrition journals”.  So, I did, and he promised to spank me on Friday for tricking him into promising to not spank me (which I will never, never do again, believe me) and for not meeting the water goal (which is why I didn’t want to show him the journal in the first place).  Also, on Thursday, after he had left to go with our son and his class to a baseball game, I managed to lock my keys in my bedroom (which I had done once before and promised to never, ever do again, which turned out to be a lie!)  I can hear you saying so what, you locked your keys in the bedroom, big deal.  Well, as I said, I had already done that once before and K had to destroy the door knob to get us in there.  I promised to be more aware of my surroundings and not do it again.  And I was, until Thursday, when I locked the door and then immediately realized I had forgotten to grab my keys first.  So, my kids had to find alternative rides home from school and my daughter had to climb through our bedroom window to unlock the door for me.  And to make matters worse (of course)  I had to pop the screen out for her to get in through the window and K had to put it back in for me.  Needless to say, he was less than pleased.  It is all a matter of me not taking the time to make sure everything is where it belongs before I do things.  A common occurrence, unfortunately.  So, since this was not the first offense for either the keys or the water, and since he considered that tiny bit of trickery to be the same as lying  (I mean really, what was the harm, it’s not like I actually thought he wouldn’t ever spank me for it!),  I received three very hard spankings yesterday.  So hard, I am bruised, so hard, I had to sleep on my tummy, so hard, I thought he was killing me with the third one (not really-but you  submissives  know what I mean!) .  He did space them out, they weren’t one right after the other.  (Well two were, but the third one was last night.)  Plus, he was very nice to me and skipped maintenance this morning, thank goodness!  He would have had to pin me down for that, I think.

I have to say, as painful as those spankings were, they made the point!  And, as was the last spanking I received like that,  it is the kind that makes me say, I am never going to do that again, and mean it!  I have not been rude or sassy to K since that spanking (which you all can read about  here).

I know K does not like to spank me so severely but I would much rather he do that, once in a great while, instead of spanking me over and over for the same things because he doesn’t want to give me an “avoid at all costs” type of spanking.  It becomes a game otherwise and we are just playing at him being hoh and me being submissive.  Since we don’t consider the success of our marriage, or our family, a game –he needs to spank like he means it, and he does.  Which means that, sometimes, I have to sleep on my tummy!


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  1. Sounds like it was a day to remember! I agree with you about keeping DD real and not a game. Hope the bruises have faded and you’re back to sleeping OFF your tummy. Meow
    PS: Our first year of marriage, I locked myself out of our apartment about once a week! Good thing we weren’t spanking then!

  2. `N, I am sorry you had a rough day. I want to throw something out there…just for consideration. Have you ever been evaluated for ADD? This is not the first time I have read one of your posts and heard you describe not being able to focus, forgetting things like the keys, and thought it sounded like more than typical distraction. If so, spanking is not going to change it! Effort will not do much to turn that ability to focus around. I hope you don’t mind me mentioning this, but I feel badly for you, hearing about K’s and your frustration with what I suspect is not within your control! Now the ‘deal’ you made…lesson learned on that one!

    • Hi Sara, thanks for you thoughts. I am probably ADD, but when I was a kid you didn’t diagnose things like that. I was just considered hyperactive. I realize spanking won’t help with that but it might help me learn to slow down and think about what I am doing before I do it.
      ~N

    • hahaha….might just be age… LOL…..

      sorry, N….couldn’t resist!!

      g.

      • Are you that much younger than me then? It is only a matter of time before your brain turns to mush too, you know! (BTW, I will be 46 in July.) ~N

        • just a bit – but I woulda said it anyway. LOL

          g.

  3. eeeep! Well, now you kinda dug yourself quite a deep hole, now didn’t ya?

    g.

    • Thanks for your kind words of sympathy, it is always nice to know I can count on you!
      ~N
      p.s. where are my cyber peas?


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